Why is soo many I see online deleted, dunced, or silent?

@JabinKahlil: Not everyone is on at same time-some never chat on forums-which is sad because when I see on a guys profile that he has been here a bit and never posted on forums it makes me wonder why not? Some are not as social I guess? The ones that deleted could be on again w different Username.. I used to be under Sammy2:) Check dates too because some have found someone and left maybe?

There is more ppl on earlier very few at night. & The night owls are not on as much Or every night.

So there is hope yet? I been reading all day, and i sorta wana get to know a certain lady. . But she is this dunce thing. . How can I meet this woman

@im1made4u: I am a little of both-sometimes a night owl, most times I read or play scrabble on my phone til I fall asleep, so if Im on here late night Im usually drinkin, and if ya see me here but not on forums I am reading past threads and finding out more and more every time;) lol

@IndianDreamer: so is it based on a comment. . I ask because I nearly read the entire forum, and i saw alot of hatred against newer females and males alike.

@JabinKahlil: I'm sorry that there are alot of different ppl With different views. just be urself & tell ppl how u feel bout things In nice way. Theres few mean ppl but 4 the most part most are very helpful&respectful.Can't say much 4 some men thats contacted me Lol!

Wait...what? The dunce of the girl you are referring to is based on a comment? lol And I disagree completely if this is what you are basing your opinion on.. I have been dunced twice-namecalling-even tho she called me a bitch first-and for starting drama-which was well deserved-oh wait it has been three times and the third was also for starting drama with the same person-who is actually a dear friend of mine:)The girl you are referring to has been very anti-social since the beginning-not in a quiet sorta sit back and watch kinda way lol Newcomers who approach this forum with a MocoSpace attitude are more than likely gonna be told the difference. The difference is you cannot just say rude things about others and their opinion unless you have the facts and backbone to back it up. This is a public forum.. many opinions-many voices-if many voices express their opinion to a newcomer because they have said something to be debated-well then thats just democracy:) Damn Im ramblin! Its late!