@rodsattempt: your welcome

@iloveubabe123: ya good way to look at it

@rodsattempt: If you were expecting to be slammed for dating/flirting with younger women....highly unlikely. But when & if you are rejected by younger women, who do not want a 41 year old man with kids... Don't be surprized. People are welcomeing here, & for the most part, honest. So you may hear "well what did you expect , your 41?"

@Zilya777: ya verry true thanks for your honesty that's what I was looking for. Believe it or not people have a hard time saying how they truly feel

At 41 I think dating someone 30 and above is completely acceptable, anything below 30 I would cross my eyes at but that's just me.

@rodsattempt: We are all hear for different reasons. What we want, don't want, tolerate, & refuse to stand for...different for everyone. It's just the reality of it all. Welcome, to the good,the bad,the ugly,the unloved,&....then some. Lol Wish you well :)

As long as they are not jailbait then you are fine