Hey I am in same boat I have no car and and am new to where I live so really don't know nobody yet but haven't really meant guys yet but it will happen so not sure what to do ether and I have 4 kids

@Strongrose why does it feel like ur first date with some one new feels like a job interview than a date

I would never have a date over to my place. No matter how long you talked to them. They could turn out to be a psycho stalker type and how you gonna explain to the police where you met this person? Oh officer Im on a dating site and decided after we text and talked that we should have a date at my house. No officer I didnt do a background check because he seemed so nice..... My ex i met online. Not here. After we talked for 3 months he moved here. He abused me and then hurt my kids. After I had him put in jail I got his criminal history, false imprisonment, several batteries, assault, harassment and even terroristic threats. He said and did all the right things. Just be careful not only for your safety but for the kids also.