Oh yikes OK that's a horror story.

Sorry that you had that experience...women like that really does make it harder for the rest of us to meet decent men...after a few women like that decent men tend to get gun shy.

Met a guy from on here...thought I was very adult about wanting a fwb to start and see where it wld go...sooo we met, try each other on for size and he stands up dresses and walks to the door....long story short and leaving some of my humiliation out....he only met me at the direction of another female member on here.....they thought it was funny to screw with me like that and hey, at least he got laid outta it right? Wonder what she got? How sad her lil life must be!

@alleycat74: yes very much so its why I have so many blockers up right now. Like if one asks about how much money I make nope press on asks what kind of car I drive nope press on asks about my credit ,bills, anything like that . I have a bunch of dating horror stories that was just the only one that I met on this site . I have had to rebuild my life to many times im getting to old to have to do it again.

So its happened more than once? Heres some advice....its a two letter word I learned a looooong time ago..."no"....use it and it will change your life.

@WalkSoftly1: no just general heartbreak its only happened twice wear it was gut wrenching I was just used heartbreak . Took along time to get over the first one . Oh and im real good with the word no and a good f,ck off works good sometimes too.

@BoxBlockingBitch: ive been there myself have also been used as a revenge tool that sucks too.

that is a useful word to use in many situations.:-)

@alleycat74: im a natural born smart a,s so no is to simple for me most of the time :-)

hey whatever works for you :-)