Do you believe its old-fashioned to wait on the man to approach me first? I have many friends who will boldly approach guys but me personally think that's just out of order. idk though what do you guys think?

Stay in your comfort zone... But if you do see a guy on here that fits the bill you might want to grab his attention.

I generally wait myself. I might make a move every now and then, but I think if he's interested he'll let me know, then I can handle it from there

I also think flirting can go along way!!! Flirt here on forums and see if he bites, its a good way to stand out from the others

Ill usually make the first move but I gotta say....every now and then the lion likes the antelope to just wander into his jaws

I never make the first move...but sometimes I wonder if I should.

Lol creepy metaphor but i gotcha and @briteeyes i agree with you

@YouCantFixStupid: me too but its really just the fear of rejection holding me back.

I don't think it's that for me...I just really think its HIS job to make the initial move yanno....kinda like I think its mine to initiate sex when the time comes...

I mean I think so girls do wait for love to smack them in the face but live is not a romantic comedy and I swear some girls think like that