@sweetmel: Ah! You mean you met him here online?

@Crady: yes I do !

@sweetmel: For me, ever since I lost my trust for ladies during a long distant relationship that caused me to loose trust, I don't believe in a long distant/online relationships. I feel insecure. Even if he will chat with people here, I think 80% of his attention must be on you.

@jpack: crazy thought !! Lol

@sweetmel: have you meet him in person yet ? If the answer is no, don't give out all your feelings to him .

Virtual dating is kind of tricky . Some appears honest but not and others are only here for fun .

Better to guard your feelings toward him if you know he is showing some " not good " behaviors.

Friendly chatting on here with opposite sex is I think ok as long as no flirting involve if one is already " not single " .

@Crady: she does know. I tell her all about it. She knows I am loyal to her.

@crady, I'm agreed with u and u are very true

@Rainbowbutterfly1: but is it wrong if I want him just concentrate at me while chatting ?

Do you both agreed to exclusively chatting now that you are having the relationship ?


For me personally & I hope you don't take it wrongly , sort of .. Because , you don't know , what the message(s) is / are about , it might be an answer to a mere Q or something or if he is lying then its good that you know who the real him early on ..

You know the sayings that " set him free if he comes back then he is yours ..

Do u wana see my ****