nobody can answer that question but you. There's not a set amount of time. Its not an hour or a day or a week...its when YOU feel in Ur heart its over

@Briteeyes: i understand. . . although not everyone has the luxes of being the one to decide these things. i guess in th end it all comes down to is trust there? is there love? and is there happiness? for me it is all there. i now wait to see if the other feels the same.

I would aim for friends and see if it leads to a realationship.

@CarefulBitchesImPregnant: well we as supposed to be in a relationship already. but it took a turn somehow. but perhaps your right. perhaps i do need to step down. . . . . but i truly hope not.

@Cityman5202: ooo ok. Well just take things slow than. If its meant to be it will be if not it may hurt but you'll pick up the pieces

@CarefulBitchesImPregnant: i will agree that he it works it will if it doesnt then it doesnt. but he it doesnt then no i wont pick up the pieces. to many times this has happened to me. i will leave the shattered pieces on the ground and walk away. but yes life will go on. i will still work still follow my profession dreams. so i suppose a broken heart cannot destroy everything.

@Cityman5202: Just a side note here...but most girls don't like to read about themselves on the forums. They like to handle their personal lives privately...just sayin. Maybe that will help u...cuz this actually may be doing u more harm then good

@Briteeyes: good point and duly noted. thank you for bringing this to my attention.