@Chitownangel82: oftentimes it seems that what we seek finds us after we quit looking. i hope that happens to you.

Lol hook me up cuz these damn hilljacks think they deserve super models that double as a pay check and their personal slave... I'm all for taken care of my man and I don't want some dude thinking I need to be treated like a queen... But damn lol

This is so true

Sound creepy lol! But seriously, some of the so-called "bashing" the OP is referring to isnt bashing at all...its just that some of us have been here awhile and our " bullshjt meter" is pretty well tuned.....as for people looking at the forums studying people, Im sure Ive been "studied" and its probably cost me a relationship or two....but am I supposed to be fake out here? I think not....wen, and if, I meet "the one" off of here, itll be cuz she like ALL of me, the good and the bad....and if some lurker decides not to get to know me because THEY took a post outta context, well, thats their loss.

That's EXACTLY how I feel about it Walks...well said.

Never understood people reading forums and not participating...I dont think its "bashing" just general discussion w different opinions

Studying you has its drawbacks as well....I have been so honest on here that if you've read it all you pretty much know exactly who I am and what I want, it just gives someone that is looking to play you all the tools to do it well. Trust me on that one....

Evidently theres ALOT of people who read the forums and never post.....pus.sies lol.....see? This is a post some lurker will judge me on, and its just a joke haha

you got that part right

I don't see that much bashing out here.