I was trolling through the forums and one thing that just kept jumping out at me was all the men and women bashing on this site. That lead me to the question. If we are on a dating site to find that "special someone" then why all the trash talk?
I don't think anyone knows what they truly want unless they find it. Doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl. Men treat women like crap and women treat men like crap. It's a cycle and we all just keep coming back for more.
On that note. I wish everyone on here the best of luck in finding what they want.

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages about these forums. People read them that don't post, but they sure do notice. And actually my guy was one of them. He studied me for months out here and loves me anyway lol...

Lol that's good.. Good luck with him

@Chitownangel82: thats true I sometimes feel like give them flying kick..bashing and brag each other like theyre the one who is right..psshh

I think it's funny. Specially men who say women don't k own what they want. Well while that's true we definitely know what we don't want lol and I'm sure guys can say the same thing

@Chitownangel82: we all seem to share something in common here. We tend to let our guard down and let it all hang out (so to speak lol). What strikes some as bashing may just be a glimpse of a warped sense of humor or maybe a cry of pain. Just sayin.

I can see that goat but still... Bashing is bashing humorous or otherwise and while I think it's funny like I said earlier. Nobody knows what they want til they find it. I thought I found it a few times on this site and boy was I wrong lol

@Chitownangel82: yes, you are correct-bashing is bashing. i've been guilty of that too. but i try to understand why we all do what we do. i'm sorry that you've been hurt here before. i hope that you find who you seek.

I stopped looking lol I am learning to be content as a 30 something single in a world where the simple country values and morals I have don't stand a chance against technology and a fast pace lifestyle. I don't even think there's any country boys left out there lol

@Chitownangel82: I dont know how things are in Ohio but theres a bunch of us country boys over here in Illinois lol. Im off the market but I got some buddies over here that would love to meet you.