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Tell me if this is okay.. please (by BlackRose)

 BlackRose (14)  (31 / F-M / Texas)
15-Jun-12 8:29 pm
Okay so I had gone out with my friend,now ex, last year on this day we met okay so we went out, talked everyday. He went to new york to go training and helping kids with martial arts. I got a call that he was in the hospital so I freaked out and went across the country to see him he was alright and stuff so last month he told me it was over... I didn't know why then he just said cause your german and I'm jewish. That's it with that he left I was heartbroken and I'm going out with an awesome sweet guy but I can't help but ask.... is that okay? For someone to brake up because of religion?!?

 

 

 
 
 Acire 
15-Jun-12 8:47 pm
Germans not a religion

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes1211 
15-Jun-12 8:49 pm
Well everyone has their own way of thinking...so it mite not be rite, may of jus been an excuse. If u have a great guy now, jus put ur ex in the past and dont worry abt y u broke up

 

 

 
 
 rachelle04 (1)    (40 / F-F / Texas)
15-Jun-12 9:30 pm
Yea just stick to the guy u are whith now and if he make u happy

 

 

 
 
 BlackRose (14)  (31 / F-M / Texas)
16-Jun-12 4:29 am
Thanks :') but ... haven't you ever fallen in love with someone and cared about him so much you'd do anything? Well it was like that. But ur right move on...

 

 

 
 
 LovelyLexa 
16-Jun-12 5:00 am
Yes i have.. but those kind of relationships r so unhealthy. Think about it if he loved u as much as u loved him u wouldnt b hurting... i know it hurts like crap rite now & u dont want cliches thrown at u so im gone tell u the truth. Its gone hurt for a long long time but u will gradually over time & self healing stop thinking about him as much until one day u completely stop ur gonna make it girl i believe :)

 

 

 
 
 sweetheart1 (4)  (31 / F-M / Oklahoma)
21-Jun-12 2:58 am
It dont matter who ya dating

 

 

 
 
 rachelle04 (1)    (40 / F-F / Texas)
21-Jun-12 3:07 am
U never know what will happen

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
21-Jun-12 4:00 am
Yes i have.. but those kind of relationships r so unhealthy. Think about it if he loved u as much as u loved him u wouldnt b hurting... i know it hurts like crap rite now & u dont want cliches thrown at u so im gone tell u the truth. Its gone hurt for a long long time but u will gradually over time & self healing stop thinking about him as much until one day u completely stop ur gonna make it girl i believe :)
this is the best advice. I couldnt of done it any better. She is right. We all have been through this sometime in our lives. Maybe a couple of times. But we learn from all our experiences in life. Everything we go through and endure makes us who we are.

 

 

 
 
 Darussian 
24-Jun-12 2:12 am
Hes not a very good jew if he does fighting.:) there not allowed its apart of there religoin

 

 

 
 
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