Hey guys, my ex boyfriend refuses to move on, we dated on & off for 2 1/2 years, during this time he was an obsessive boyfriend, very pushy, controlling, my independence bothered him, and he became needy, and very clingy. He also constantly pursued me out of low self esteem. I couldn't take anymore of his bs, and told him off a couple months ago. He told me I'm the only reason he's alive and threatened to kill himself. Now he just wants to be friends, but I'm afraid the exact same thing will happen again. Why doesn't this jerk get the message? I've done just fine without him in my life.

@mskitty1990: I left my ex a little over 5 years ago we was together for 14 years on and off he still tries and he's married I ignore.it eventually he'll give up I wish you luck hope he gives up on you

@mskitty1990: Its a good idea to u to let him but the speed @ whch u crosed up @ ones mind may nt b z same @ which it may leave

what?

i wouldnt be friends with him i dont think that would be a good idea its just a way for him to stay close to you

@lace38: i agree i had a gf tht was exact like tht

@Poeticjustice65: I think he's being selfish and playing games, it's just best to ignore him and pretend he doesn't exist.

good thing u gotta way from her

@lace38: yes indeed now she trying say tht i said things bout her tht weren't true but i have 3 or 4 buddies saying i was near her ever

@lace38: Yeah, like he's trying to trap me