Can anyone tell me why it never gets easier to deal with the loss of a parent? My father died November 13, 2009 and it feels like it was yesterday. I get tired of hearing "it gets easier" thats crap. I never does.

Find peace in the little things or nothings gonna get better my daugter died march of 2010 and it still hurts but shes at peace now and wont ever know any more pain or suffering. Same with your father. Find peace in that. Oh and my daughter was born november 13 2007

@Noresttonight: thank you for your kind words. I try everyday to remember the great times. Im sorry for your loss.

The pain never gets easier...it becomes a numb place in ur heart. Dealing with it gets easier over time, but the sorrow is always there. My daddy passed February 2004 seems like yesterday, I still cry, I still morn and that's ok

I know that its not that easy, but ull learn to forget it when years passed..

I lost my dad 2 years ago I took care of him for 3 years before he passed away he became my best friend it's hard but you just say to your self would he want me to be so depressed all the time because of his death No he wouldn't he want you to be happy and enjoy life I think about him a lot and miss him everyday but I know he want me to enjoy my life and be happy

@americanbadass77: it doesn't get easier sweetie i buried a child in 94 and not a day goes by that he is not thought of. All we can do is remeber the good things and hope someday we will see them again in what ever afterlife you believe exists. Memories keep them alive within us and help us through the difficult times when they would have been there to lift us from our sorrow. It is all we can do to push forward and keep living because they would want us to. Parents always want their children to live and have a full life just as they did.

@HonestAndCaring65: uve not lost ur dad babe maybe on this earth level ; but he is always with u every time u think about him he is with u and smiling, so smile back and be happy and he will be to . were only on this earth level journy for a short time so embrace and enjoy , u will be reunited with ur dad again on ur next journy of life. Lol xxx

@americanbadass77: it does get easier and u will adjust to ur dad not being around on this physical earth level but he is with u wen u everytime u think about him . enjoy ur life and make ur dad proud u will see him again

@americanbadass77: it does get easier eventually , ,the loss will ease ,. the hurt will subside, and wen u think about ur dad u wont be lost u will be found .enjoy ur life be happy , make ur dad proud u will be reunited 1day . xx