Who cares... Is it really affecting their lives?

I been reading a lot and a lot. Ive notice when some people move on quick people get mad or some form or another. Who cares if someone is ready to move on in a day, an hour, a week, a month etc... Your not that person honestly some people get over things faster than others. Honestly I think people get jealous or some crap. Yea you'll get the feeling that they could possibly the one. A lot get that. I know I have. Actually I been in love with my best friend for awhile I was just running from the truth and I get the "slow down" from everyone.. Slow down from what that I actually found Mr.Right and yea we have ups and downs but at the end of the day my heart is with him and he knows how much I love him still. It shouldnt matter what people say about your dating life or whatever. Honestly it matters what YOUR heart says. Always follow your heart and trust your gut feelings. At the end its you that has the finally decision. Just because you dont fit someones life style or their beliefs doesnt mean you have to change. Yes people give me THEIR opinion doesnt mean thats my way of doing or thinking... Thats their opinion.. Not mine... Yes they can say it doesnt mean its gotta be yours.

With all that being saif.. Im still gonna marry derrek when We decide to. Not when everyone think we should. :)

Very well said

its your life you have to do what's best for you, but don't feet made at others because they are just trying to save you from heart ache. They don't mean you any harm

I still say pump the brakes....but I do wish you the best of luck

Be happy babes

A very wise old man gave me some wisdom... He's 86 been married once for 58 years and is still married to her. Made me smile. Told him I pray every night and he said that all he did was pray :)

Them wise old birds are wise for a reason.

@AlterEgo: because they work on their marriages they believe if something is broke you fix it you don't throw it away what I believe to

@HonestAndCaring65: I have believed in that from day ine. I din"t run from problems. I may walk to clear and calm myself but have never given up. It takes two.

@AlterEgo: yes it does take two my last relationship was 14 years it was hell but I kept trying but it won't work with just me trying I had to give up for my health and sanity