Wen i was with my ex of 5 yrs the last year was brutal to me and she was seeing an old bf i new she was doing it i jus thot they was jus friends but found out later it was more but can any1 answer this how can u put a guy through he.. For so long and then up 1 day tell him to leave bc u still have feelings for another guy and then tell him that tht guy was ur first love i dnt mean to be rude but been trying to figure this out for months can any1 help me out please???

Guys do it too

@MostHatedBitchHere: see i loved her so much waited on her hand and foot and one day i was on facebook and seen a pic of them tht said true love in it and like normal i asked bout it n she told me then she left me im a person tht dnt judge nethng but jus trying to figure out why some women do tht for so long in a relationship

simple. .she used u as a ''shield cover''. . S0me grls do it 4 own reas0n, either she trying to 4get the old one wd a new one, hving a rlati0nshp 4 so l0ng and 1day she realized. She cant love u enaf the way she love the old one. .or sumtyms they do it 4 fun, to get jealous of old bf, hving a new guy beside is great revenge. .thus 5yrs has nothing to her, cz ur not the one who truly inside of her heart. . . @Bigjohn0628:

It happens to men and women. U just love some more then others. She had feelings for this guy she couldn't let go of, don't really mean it was about u

Just piece of advice: next tym u going to love sum0ne be sure that ur sense still working, dnt let girls put ''a cord'' on your neck and be her puppet, love her wd ur heart and also wd ur mind. . Keep the heart beat but keep also the senses. .

@Yeiszha: all in all pretty mucg it cud be outta revenge but y stay in a relationship 4 so long tho thts the part i cant seem to understand

@Briteeyes: the thing is tho she knew how much i loved her through all the things i did for her opened car doors romantic dinners etc and she new she was doin this to me the only thing tht she told me was he was her first love but wen we got together thts wat she told me i was tho but it hurt me so much wen she let me go the way she did

@Yeiszha: thanks that helps alot i guess i did let her control me way to much but me i want the woman happy if shes happy im happy guess its the way i was raised tho

Just let her go and move on. . So many grls out der worthy than her, i knw u love her too much, thats y she easily to make u blieve 4 nothingness. . . Move on, dude. .@Bigjohn0628: