yes this is what someone else had mentioned also. Its sad that people use and abuse others like that. Shouldn't play with peoples feelings just cuz they are confused about their own

I learn from the BEST. You are the best! Good luck!

Well I seen him. Spent the past 4 hours talking things out. Now I'm hooked on a married man...what am I gonna do? :( she doesn't have long to live, but still. I'm doomed

@Briteeyes: Aww Brites i know what you are going through i really do.. and i dont know if you remember way back when i 1st started on here i made a thread because i was tired of people blamen the mistress/lover for being a home wrecker when they had no clue in the world that the man they fell for lied and turns out to be married.. Ive been through it all .. Its not a good spot to be in.. Im sorry Brites that you are going through this big hugs :) you can always pm me if you wish :)

@Briteeyes: I'm sorry BRITE, I'm here if you need to talk

Thanks girl. I'm really at a lose. I fell for a married man once before but left him once I found out, he stayed with his wife 5 more weeks then came to me and we were married 10 years. I'm ofcourse not gonna ask him to leave his wife, she's on her death bed sorta, hes only home like 2 nights a week. I asked how he could possibly give me what I need in a relationship....he wants to try and see if we can make it work. he's in my town 4-5 nights a week. Idk....I like him, more then just a lil bit, but trust is now an issue and will he be able to offer me what I need :(

@Briteeyes: he explained the wife but what about the other girl you know about

@Briteeyes: what a sec is this the same guy that pulled a tiger woods?

@Briteeyes: Aww i just wanna fly there and give you a hug, You will get through this just surround yourself with supportive people who will be by your side :) At the moment i can tell your very hurt :( .. Big hugs and dont ever think of yourself any less because of whats happend ok :) Your a beautiful mother :)

@MostHatedBitchHere: he had been seeing her for 3 months, didn't click as he and I did, he hadn't called it off cuz she knew where he lived and didn't want her telling his wife. Which she treated to do once she found out about me but so far hasn't. I said if I EVER find out he's trying with someone I will walk away no explanation, no discussion, nothing!