I am wondering what it is that is so wrong with me that makes people stand me up? since the first of the year when i decided it was time to start dating again every weekend that i have made plans for a date (sometimes it could be 2 dates in same weekend) Ive been stood up or cancelled on and then i never hear from them again, oh and heres the best one getting to meeting place and they pull up and laugh throw a box of diet pills at me and drive away with another woman in the car. Why do that to someone?

what is so terribly wrong with me that people think they can do crap like that and think it wont hurt or bother me. this past week alone i got stood up by 3 different people. wth is this world comming to?

@kymberbutt1976: The only thing i can say is that some folks are unhappy with themselves why they do things like that is no reflection on you hon. They are just mean. You will always be you. Keep your head up and love you.

Cause your trying to date ass.holes...maybe try an get to know them a lil better before goin on a date

People who are insecure about themselves often pick on other people to try to make themselves feel better. They're the ones with the problems, not you.

@xSinneDx: im not trying to date ass holes, and i talk to them a while before agreeing to meet them but this isnt only new people, this is people i have known for years as well.

Whys somethin gotta be wrong with you? Its a problem in them, not you. And they are just proving that you deserve better. Dont let their idiocracy bring you down.

@bamacountry: oh the crazier thing about all this is, is that i rarely got cancelled on,and never got stood up when i was 375 lbs but now that i have lost 150 lbs to better myself and my health, i get stood up and crap. its not like i am one of these girls who looses a bunch of weight and not only have physical changes but also personality changes n becomes a biatch just cause she can.. i am still who i have always been the sweet, loving, caring, compassionate, and all around good girl, and when i look in the mirror i still see that 375 lb girl, not the slimmer trimmer 225 lb girl that stands there looking in the mirror

@kymberbutt1976: I know what you mean. I've been stood up many times myself, it sucks! If a person doesn't want to go on a date what's wrong with a simple "no thanks"

@Tractorboy: or why even bother asking someone out. but i know that if they were treated the way they treat me they would not like it any

@kymberbutt1976: I have lost weight too. Even though we may "see" something different in the mirror. The inner beauty is what matters. I guess i just have the attitude if they do not like me for me it is their loss. I know what i am. I am happy with me. That is all that matters.