I have a hard time believing that ive always been honest and respectful and yet i always get shot down

People want the truth but most don't like it wen they hear it. I've been on here a few wks now and read a lot of things. I'm 41 and spend the last 19 yrs in prison. Who would want to hear that on a first date

@Jackxv: well i look at it like this, everyone has made mistakes and them things can never be changed but still people like to pass judgement and have no right to! So it shouldnt matter that u was in prison bc guess what the person you tell that to has done things in thier life as well sweetie!!

You can never tell because each person likes something different. One girl will love something about you and another will think its nothing special. There's nothing you can do or say to get someone to like you they just have to like you for who you are

This wasnt a question to improve my own game in any way..im fully satisfied with the way i am and need no help deciding what i should do to appear attractive to someone..it was simply just a question to see a variety of things girls can b drawn to

Which is funny because most of the replies were...."in general" haha. Im attracted to lots of things. Dancing being a good example. Chivalry and respect for his elders is something i highly admire as well. What usually reels me in, most commonly, is a good sense of confidence. Not to be mixed up with "cockiness" or what not, but a man who is confident in what he is and does stands out to me.

I used too do amatuer weightlifting competitions till got kicked by stupid ass nazi horse, but i remember lookin the crowd from lifting area once completed a good lift some girls just see it in there eyes. RAAAAWRlol idk if i just smelled bad that day or not but they just had this look.

I think its attractive when a guy gives a girl her very own nickname, not jus baby. Ask about her day, her family, tells her goodmorning and goodnight. And i also agree with the seeing a man be respectful towards others, opening doors, etc. Big turn on!! Also knowing tht a man is out working hard to support his family, theres nothing more attractive than that. ;)

@Polluxgem: i like who a guy can make me laugh and feel good about myself by telling me how pretty i look even when i dont thank i do

@Jackxv: i like the truth from the get go i was in jail for three month ya i know it is not as long as 19 yrs but i like being truth for and i really dont care if a guy has been in jail or proison as long as they told me what for and i would tell them y i was in jail but my is not for anythang bad