Due to all thats happened in the recent days and seeing alot of profiles. I have decided to enclose some info that can help keep you from falling victim. A pic is worth a thousand words. A predator can just look at ur pic and get a idea of your personality. A predators goal is to find your weakness and exploit it. Granted u dont what to be to vague but in some cases less is more. A few ways to spot a abuser. When they have been in the wrong but try to make u feel quilty. Theres much more but i got to get back to driven i will add more tonite.

First off. What your thread about is false im sure. Wheres your phd in psycology? What gives you the right to sit on your high horse and say someons picture is what makes them a victim. Just because someone hs a pretty face dosent mean its there fault if there a victim or not. Just so happens to be that some sick fuc.k picked them. Make sure you get some facts straight before you post a bull**** thread.
sincerily, fu.ck off.

U know what i did that got attention? I bumped the man at the post office. Sometimes bad sh:t just happens.

I am not blaming a pic or a victim there a victim because there not at fault and i know alot about abuse and being a predator. And i am not on a high horse simply sick of weman like brite bein targeted and with the knowledge i have on the matter am tryin to inform any woman what to look for. In a predator/abuser.

Acire u are rite it does just happen. But there are guys like tom that will carefully pick there victims.

And beware of people who are way to clingy...and who tell u they love u after only sending a handful of msgs. Just use a lil common sense and trust ur gut.

Yes how do u love a person u have never met or know very little about. When u say no do they apply harder pressure.

@763dan8578: Great point Dan

& most predators will say words that most of us longs to hear (we are the most beautiful and smartest being that captures their attention). They targeted members whom they think are lonely, alone and desperate to find love.

Rule of the thumb. If it is too good to be true, Run & save your heart! Predators are gOod in manipulating emotions.

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