Better yet, explain that if he wants to go out with you, he needs to pay for a sitter

Hey thats a good idea kinda weed out the loosers doing it that way

Im in the same boat. I dont like dates meeting my kids but with no sitter, its impossible.

If u are dating I don't think ur kids should be there, but just hanging out watching movies or at the park, I think its ok to have the guy there cuz mommy needs friends of both sexes, so just cuz u hang out don't mean u have to get serious with him. U can't keep all ur friends from ur kids. And I'm sure they would enjoy getting.out or having someone else to nag lol. Friends are friends.

well for me i see nothing wrong bring a date to ur house, it just like u showing him or her ur kids and ur home to see, a real date comes to house not hanging outside without even knowing ur home, if a date refuse to come to ur home for ur kids not to see him or her it means he or she is fake

Yeaaa, dont know how it is in the Delta State, but here in the U.S. we have these people called child molesters...kinda tend to keep new people away from our kids til were sure theyre not one!

Oh and if its ur first time meeting them, like someone off here for example...I would NOT bring him to ur home or let him meet ur kids....only if u have met is it acceptable to.have him near ur babies. I have met 3 men from here & my kids know NONE of them. Find a teenage girl near by to sit for an hour, its not that hard

I wouldn't go around a guys kids on our first date our of respect to the children and the other parent. I don't care who you are if you really want to date you can find a sitter. If you can't than you should get your **** straight before trying to date. I have male friends that I allow to come around my kids but they are just friends. being a bunch of men around your child is just going to **** with their mind.

@MsAlwaysRight: I like dat, but why?

@WalkSoftly1: but first tym is absolutely bad, b'cos u don't know the person intention. May good or bad. Pls take note of dis.thanks