But im not one to open up. So this is one off those things that I just dont know what to do . Im one that gives advice .

@player4life68: I can try to help you. What's up?

@bamacountry: im really just madly in love and very very scared everything around me is falling apart except me her and the kids. Im going into debt very quickly and dont know what to do . Im recently divorced so that didnt help but im very confused.

@player4life68: As far as the debt goes if you do not need it do not buy it. For the love awesome! You will always have that. I know that is hard to go through. I have been there before myself. Learn from it. Take the best from it and grow my friend. Everything happens for a reason. I hope i helped you some.

@bamacountry: lol wish it was that easy for me and my girl to get any alone time I have to rent rooms she dont have her own place and my ex still lives at mine with no place to go . My ex is abusive and very violent so no chance of me taking my girl there. I have to big of a heart to throw someone out the street even if they are a complete psycho

@player4life68: go to a park or somewhere

Until you get your ex outta the house, you're gonna have difficulties. I understand having to big of a heart, but you gotta figure out what's best for you and your kids first. If your ex is that abusive, DCF (or comparable agency) can help you. It's tough man, I understand, but your kids safety has to come before anything. With your ex still in the house, you and your kids and girl wont be happy. It all rests on your shoulders, but you've got friends here ;-) good luck and keep us informed

So far Its going to be like a little person at a urinal im goinh to have to stay on my toes. Things are extremly complicated but I know I can get through this . Oh yea they are my gf kids but I claim them so my ex is not around them she is abusive toward me I can handle it.

@hardtolove: lol the park used to be one of my favorite places till I got busted there. If it was summer I would just go camping :-)

I think im going to just be single its prob best for me and for everyone else that way.