I have confidance, out meeting ppl, but when: having confidance, a good personality, being yourself and polite for 17 yrs dont work i gotta wonder if iam doing something wrong. In life ive always been pushed away, always rudely rejecteted, always given a super polite excuse not to further our convo because shes not intrested, told am seeing some one, ignored like i dont exist, and laughed at and never takin seriously and always givin strange negitive looks from a potential intrest without having sayed a word and always get the famous line "dont talk to me loser". Ever since ive been 13 ive been seen as never being a possibility all because im not physically attractive. High school was a nightmare every one i asked out would say no, youre too ugly, youre not my type or i always would get pranked. Society has seen a man thats 30yrs old+ thats still a virgin and has never had a gf not normal, something wrong with the guy or if he hasnt had a gf by now he must be gay. With all that sayed when having confidance, a good personality, being ur self and making moves has never worked for 17ys am i doing something wrong or is it i am not attractive. I do all a man can do (in life) to attract a female but when nothing has worked then it has to be my appearance or something. I just dont get it

mate ur no oil painting but there is someone out there for you ,i was thinking like that at 27 then i met my first wife now i have 2 beautiful daughters

@MikeN2012: No you're not doing anything wrong. Face the fact that nice guys almost always finish last. All you can do is just be yourself & sooner or later the right person will enter your life.

@MikeN2012: dont give up!wish u luck hope u find wat ur looking for.

Well, nice girls finish last too. I'm single after 2 divorces cause they cheated on me! So, No there's nothing wrong with you. Stay being yourself and you will have a beautiful woman by your side soon. :)

@MikeN2012: You cant be that bad u got 2 karma

Yea but in life for 17 yrs no one has ever let me get my foot in the door because im not hot euff for them why does it always have to be about looks im so sick of that being the one and only reason i get rejected for this long im just tired of most women (not all) being so shallow and think that if hes not physically attractive than hes not worth my time. So what im not a hunky with a ripped bod, bad teeth and dont have dashing looks is that a reason to reject a guy. I just dont want to settle for some one that im not attracted to just because no one in life has found me attractive nor do i want to lose my virginty to some just so im not a virgin anymore just for sexual gradifacation just so i fit in i have confidance and always am my self but iam always shot down because of looks, have been for 17 yrs now its hard to find something when ur unattractive to just about almost every person of the oppiste sex. I just have a feeling if nothing works for another 5 to 10 yrs and im still getting rejected because of my looks and still a virgin im goin have to settle i admit ido have a hard time, but dont judge me cuz im not good looking some ppl dont have any idea what that does to a guy espically if thats the main reason that he always gets rejected because of im still positive and have confidance just at times its hard to hang on to that if your ALWAYS Rejected (in life) for as long as i have and can seem to get no were and still a virgin all cuz ur not good lookin enuff. I will keep being myself its just idk what to do at this point i hope u gals and guys are right and i do find some one and not just fooling my self thinking there is

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