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Why are some women so attracted to guys in jail? (by Hawkeye58)
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Maybe its the bad boy image everyone talks about Instead of the good guy image. have not idea I've been to jail a couple of times and I'm not a bad girl.
@brats52005: I've been to jail 3 times over tickets. I could see him questioning anything that had to do with a felony but... everything else, not so much.
yeah that's true. and i beleive everyone deserves a chance myself. Especially if the are destined to become who they are if they choose to change.
@brats52005: I agree. I know people can change. I've seen it with my own family members.
I talked to someone about this question today....the answer I got was kinda confusing but interesting....I was told sometimes it may be normal cuz that's our life for so long like me growing up with my dad in & out but that don't mean its natural. But for women that have been abused or need to feel emotional connections....sometimes its easier to get that from a prisoner cuz he's not here to hurt us at the moment. Prisoners are as vulnerable as we are, so its easy to see the good in them when all u've ever dealt with is the bad.
@Hawkeye-I have been attracted to a man who had been in prison for murdering a man he caught in the act of raping a 3yr old girl. If a guy tells me he has been in prison, I ask what for then decide if he is of good character regardless of his record-if he hasnt obviously changed then I avoid him like the plague lol
I met and fell in love with my ol' man before I ever found out he spent time in prison previously. He doesn't like to talk about his past & I never asked. I don't have ANY attraction to a man in jail/prison they have an attraction to me. I am NOT a judgemental person and Prisoners are judged on a regular basis. Its nothing no one can help. We don't choose this. It happens.
Jesus f*ck guys. Its not like we go LOOKING for the guy whos IN prison or who HAS BEEN to prison or who MIGHT go to prison. You don't have any clue what could happen in your life. In a month you could end up in Prison for something you didnt do. Should you just be casted away like you're a piece of sh¡t?
@AprilLove: you rock woman . . I'm too convicted of something I should not be. I pint a guy in self defense and been down 15years already . . But i'm getting out this year ! Woo ! Faith in god and so much more has made this happen for me . . Kiss and hug you girl !
its probly bcuz a guy locked up cant cheat on u.
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