Is it old fashioned to wait on a guy? Is it tacky or over bearing for a girl to offer her # ? I don't know if I have ever given my # out first but have heard a lot of females do. What do u think? I always think if he wants to text he'll ask or offer his....don't ya think lol. Opinions please from men and women

@Briteeyes: haha we had talked about this the other day lol...i have givein it out and regreted it after i felt like i shouldnt have..but sometimes it turns out good and then sometimes ur like wth was i thinkin lol..

I figure if you want someone to have your # just give it. Otherwise there might just be two people waiting for something that never happens.

@Briteeyes: its how ever u wanna do it. i personally get tired of the same thing every day. if i have to text u all the time thats gonna get old but i get up late so the girl i text would get tired of texting me firs so you have to switch it up sometimes so it doesent become the same routinee

@lace36: yeah I have guys give me theirs and I never use it. Guess that's why I wait, cuz if I gave it and he didn't want it or text id be crushed.. And lace trust me the other day was his loss....we all know that!!

i feel the same way!

@Briteeyes: awe thanks girl!! but like i was told by yal u never will know unless u do it..i did,i seen now im movein on lol

well for me,i let em ask first,b4 giving,i feel free with gals bt with men i let em start everything,i dnt say a thing or write em anything until they first write me,am a women and a woman is beautiful.

@knuckels386: yeah I've ran into that issue too. I like getting a good morning text....so I want him to make first contact no matter the time. I am gradually getting into texting first...if I feel it needs to be done.

@AuroraTheDancer: That is usually me to. Very seldom do I message a guy first unless I know them from forums.