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I dont get it help!!!! (by lonelycountrygirl84)

 lonelycountrygirl84 
8-Mar-13 12:49 pm
ok here is the deal.. About 3 month ago i was talking to this guy and it was great but we seem to b better friends then a couple. So we r friends. And i am talking to a new guy for about a month and a half. Well the other guy and i r still pretty good friends and he knows i am having a hard time right now bc of where i live is so small that it is hard as hell to find a job.... So he has offered to let me stay with hhim for a while to help me find a job and stuff.(just as friiends!!) but the thing is we have been talking more now then we did when we was dating and talkin like we r dating.. So is it that he knows i am talking to someone that makes him want to b w me now... I dont get it!!!!! why now?????

 

 

 
 
 manondago 
8-Mar-13 1:00 pm
I think the question is are you sure which one do you really want to date? If its the new one... Moving in with the first one..even as just friends...is going to to cause big problems.

 

 

 
 
 lonelycountrygirl84 
8-Mar-13 1:04 pm
the new guy knows everything... And is ok with it. And said that we r going to b closer together i am sooo confused

 

 

 
 
 manondago 
8-Mar-13 1:12 pm
@lonelycountrygirl84: He's ok with it now but for how long? And if the first guy does really want more, jealousy will show pretty quickly. It will be a
"ticking time bomb"

 

 

 
 
 lonelycountrygirl84 
8-Mar-13 1:19 pm
@manondago: i dont want that to happen but i dont reallly have a choice! i cant find a job here and i have 2 kids to take of.....

 

 

 
 
 manondago 
8-Mar-13 1:26 pm
@lonelycountrygirl84: you could try it but have some kind of back up plan if things don't work out. I don't know what else to tell you.

 

 

 
 
 hardtolove 
8-Mar-13 1:50 pm
I agree with manondago this isn't going to end well

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
8-Mar-13 6:41 pm
I agree...this has disaster written all over it

 

 

 
 
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