First off sorrry super this is insane why would anybody do something like that im a stranger in a strange land some time.. much love and god bless everybody that are who they say they are

I dont even want to post. This kinda crap must follow me around. Im disgusted, heart broken, and more decieved today then yesterday. Tears running down my face and vomit in my throat i jus cant find an answer for this. I agree with Rainbowbutterfly, maybe i should take a break to. Donna being Marcel was one thing, but Donna being Punisher I dont know how to cope with that. Im sick!!!

I can only imagine how you feel being deceived this way. The only thing I can suggest is that in order to minimize the possibility of this happening again in the future, limit your contact to users who have verified both their pic and their number. Even then, always remain vigilant until you have met the user in person and have gotten to know them.

In fact, if you look closely, you'll notice that neither Xxxdonna1 nor Punisher61 had both their pic and phones verified (Punisher61 only his pic, Xxxdonna1 only her phone), so here's another great example of where limiting your contact to people who have verified both can make a big difference.

Chin up, folks, there's still a lot of us out here who are 100% real. If this issue with fake profiles starts becoming a recurring theme, I'll consider making at least the verification of mobile phone numbers mandatory, but I only want to do that as a last resort because it can make us lose legitimate users and it's tough growing without advertising as it is.

If it's any minor comfort, at least both got caught.

@Ram318: yeah i mean ban him forever n ever period

@MrSupaFreak101: well all and especially andres...ill apologize for exploding like i did that night...was inappropriate....but i was totally dumbfounded when i found out that was a man...and disgusted with the whole situation....i have 5 children and now i sit wondering what this fool is gonna do with my pics...what if somehow they get around and my 17yr old sees em?! so thats just my reasoning for all that....please accept my apologies for how i acted....id love nothing more than to be able to continue chatting with u all....i know now i need to be more careful....

No prob, it was stressful for everyone, I completely understand. It's good to have you back. :)

@Andres: Dont you think that faking himself as xxxdonna that he may have got pictures from guys and then making new profiles with there pictures. Breaking some girls heart too.

Possibly, but that still wouldn't get him past the Photo Verification process unless someone also sent him a pic of themselves holding up a piece of paper with code he specifically requested, which I seriously doubt.

well quit judging so quickly make sure u are rt b4 u call me a trouble maker or somethn u see imma good boy in a bad boy image. This Marcell guy is a fairytale so leave him as that a fairytale. Nobody wanted to listen to me n nobody wanted to believe me except my afunk who btw found him out. Now look what do u see? Aint it a trip that donna is a man n he has pic b4 yalls eyes?

@Andres thanks, it goes much deeper then what everyone sees tho. I meet this man a few months ago under the name of "shadow rider" we texted & he deleted his account for me, i stayed for the forums. I later found out he had opened a fake account, he said he did it for a friend, we stopped talking. We later reconsiled and have been texting again, this man has sent me packages to my home address!!! He wanted to meet in East Tn the 2nd wkend in June, a few days ago i slowly stopped texting him all together. Now this comes out!! I called and confronted him & ofcourse he denies it, says sumone in Niagra has been using his # so he jus changed it, well i was stupid enough to fall for his scam but im not tht stupid!! I know they would of been getting crossed calls...duhhh. I have pics of him, his family, i never ever expected this. He does not have any nude pics of me THANK GOD but this creep has my address!! If he was seeing everything i post & i would of met up with him, do u think he would of hurt me??