@Sammy2: ooh I'll live ain't going dancing though.

People should do it out of the goodness of their heart...but...sometimes its nice to not necessarilly be paid back but to at least feel it was appreciated..

well he thinks helping me i should have sex with him n let him put me down. I moved 12 hrs away fr friends n family bcuz he promised to help me n love me. I get here n all he does is drink. Telling me my boys run my life n i am a loser bcuz i dont have a job. N i am a user bcuz he helps me n i dont give him anything. I want to go back home!

I've
always been careful accepting favours because i grow up in a community
where nothing goes for nothing so you learn to look twice befor taking a
step.I'm sorry that your having to go through this pain right now but
I'll tell one thing I've always believed if your been hurt,abused or
unhappy in a relationship then please leave and save yourself further hurt,count it as a lesson on your journey to true love so that when you do find the right man this will all be nothing but a memory.

@Deadlyrose32: girl! some of the things I need to telll you are meant for your eyes only-but seriously if this man has you trapped in a situation that compromises your self esteem and you and your childrens well being then you need to get away from him! I have info on where you can go-lol you in Indiana want me:) I was born in Winamac, raised in Knox til my mama passed when I was 12-inbox me if you truly want to remove yourself from your situation:)

It shouldnt be about paying them back. They went out of their way to help you.....if you see something they could use help with, return the favor. Not because you HAVE to but because they are your friend and you WANT to.

Just ask yourself what would judge judy say lol

Friends should help friends and not EXPECT it returned but expect it returned without question when u need them

i think i got my heart broke again idk wat to do :(