if someone says they want to help u n u let them. Should u have to pay them back? n is it called using them bcuz they want to help u?

its always good to pay them back but unless u tell them u r or they tell u too then no u dont have to. And if they offer to help u without u asking its not using. Thats how i feel anyways.

You find out who your friends are Somebody's gonna drop everything Run out and crank up their car Hit the gas, get there fast Never stop to think "What's in it for me?" Or "It's way too far" They just show on up With their big ol' heart You find out who your friends are...

@Deadlyrose32: if they offer to help that's it. If they didn't want to help they wouldn't offer. That's my opinion

Exactly:) but I also remember this-pay it forward, and you scratch my back I will massage yours! lol:) It brings on good life karma;)

Idk my friend owes me over $7000 but i doubt he pays me back but i wouldn't sue him.

I truly believe that if your friend meant to purposefully cheat you that he will lose more than that amount through the powers that be:) You seem to be such a heartfelt soul-I dont know if you can truly see his intentions through your rose colored glasses my sweet friend:)

@Sammy2: I'd kill for a back massage. Fell in shower....to damn old for that. Lol

@Sammy2: well he bought my 68 chevelle for $7500 but he only paid $500. i mean i can understand people have hard times. i mean he has no job. i even offered to give him $6000 for that car but he won't take it. so i'm give him some money each month so his kids can eat. i mean its not breaking me by no means. I was raised if asked i would give the shirt off my back to anyone in need. ya i get 5 checks a month so i donate to charities because god blessed me with a amazing life. I love being marine and not because of the money its because i love my country and i want to protect ya'll's freedom.

@rob1965: Aw:( sorry to hear that Rob-hope it heals like like Charlie Sheens girlfriends! lol;)