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Why do good people most of the time get abused in relationship? (by kamnen)

 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
18-Feb-13 12:18 pm
Can someone tell me why people desire honest and truthful people and when one is standing right there in from of them,they are so intent on their search that they turn and abuse the same people who would have fulfilled their dream?
There's nothing wrong with being a good nice person. But, that person must draw a line and boundary in how much they will take or be abused or it will be never-ending and that person will live in total misery trying to figure it out and fix it. The reality is, nice good people are naturally more compromising and a lot of the other "good" qualities in the relationship. They will most likely meet someone that offers a bit of the not so good qualities. Seems like a confusing idea, but it's true. Good people tend to also be drawn to people who make up the qualities that they may lack in. This doesn't have to be a bad thing but the good person will definitely have to draw a line that they just will not cross. Realize that they are a good person and just because they won't allow people to step all over them doesn't make them bad. If the bad person never learns to respect having a good person and just thinks they are too nice, then they should be with someone who is not. And, the good person should show them the door and learn how to be more receptive to those who will be good back to them. Good people deserve to be treated good back too. This is the way I see it anyways :)

 

 



Last edited by JustMeAndYou77; 18-Feb-13 12:21 pm.
 
 
 kamnen (0)    (47 / M-F / Nigeria)
18-Feb-13 5:21 pm
Great reply there. Very uplifting and encouraging. Good people really have to take care of themselves by drawing lines to protect
themselves.

 

 



Last edited by kamnen; 18-Feb-13 5:33 pm.
 
 
 greybunny (0)    (73 / F-M / Wales)
20-Feb-13 9:10 pm
@OhMan: what's a wolve????

 

 

 
 
 OhMan 
20-Feb-13 9:17 pm
Its a Wolf lol

 

 

 
 
 greybunny (0)    (73 / F-M / Wales)
20-Feb-13 10:07 pm
This phone is making me go bald

 

 

 
 
 greybunny (0)    (73 / F-M / Wales)
20-Feb-13 10:11 pm
He's my favourite! The little mad fella with the red face!! You can add expletives!! B!!!er!!!??'xxx

 

 

 
 
 greybunny (0)    (73 / F-M / Wales)
20-Feb-13 10:13 pm
Turns me on! What is needed is an angry girl and an angry boy!! That would be good! Watch him go

 

 

 
 
 greybunny (0)    (73 / F-M / Wales)
20-Feb-13 10:14 pm
Could watch him for hours! Calms me.

 

 

 
 
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