Why is it that in a relationship, a partner would expect so much sacrifice, giving,understanding and forgiveness fron the other but would not be willing to even raise a finger to help when expected? They want others to act responsibly but they themselves a not ready to be responsible. They want a hundred percent from the other but are unwilling to give even one percent. It really kills me. Someone help...

I've been there...I think anyone who treats another person that way is controlling and selfish. Because they only care about themselves and their wants and needs. It is not a healthy relationship. Jmo

sounds more like a dictataship than a relationship to me

There are things that just wont fly with me no matter what is going on. There was a saying that if a husband works and supports his family, the wife should overlook his affairs with other women. This is not him giving 100% of himself. So, there has to be more than just how much someone is willing to do in the relationship. It's also about how much they are willing to commit themselves entirely to the relationship and focus on doing things that build and secure that particular relationship. So, if a guy does 100% of the working and providing than yeah...I should be willing to cook his food and wash his clothes. Everything being done is to maintain the life happening within that relationship. And, everything that is contributed to the relationship should be equally important. However, saying I forgive you for the multiple affairs as long as you're nice to me or providing for the household is a mess lmao

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Hi guys! Well, I consider myself personally to be a feminist somewhat! Which has a tendency to make men run a mile away! I have issues with the rolls men and women are expected to play when in a relationship together! To me equallity is the golden word! Women Do 3 jobs usually! Child care, housekeeper and a paid job outside the home! Men do one job and get fairer and better pay with opportunity!.They come home andget waited on free! Men couldn't survive in the workplace if it wasn't for women! Then they lose interest sexually turn to porn and prostitution and **** up their kids lives!! The majority of women play fair!!