Yes both are to blame cuz both knew the whole situation and neither have admitted it fully....smh shame shame lol

Ive been in this situation with well now ex friend cause i slap her and the guy both were dishonest, and the friend had a record of stealing others man and me being me felt sorry for her BUT never thought she would do it me!!

Just confront both and go from there:)

I don't give someone a get out of jail free card, just because I have feelings for them, not in those kind of situations anyway.

nope I say neither of them is worth my time

I think you're right!

if I liked someone and asked you and others about him but then you ended up with him? Um.. not sure thats even a real issue Brite-lol-unless Im misunderstanding you... :)

@Sammy2: If when u came and asked me about Rick and I supported u and gave u advice with him....but then go behind ur back and get him for myself, is that betrayal of a friend on my part??

@Briteeyes: well yeah if you encouraged me then went behind my back and started a relationship with him without bein upfront about it that would be dishonest and trifling, but if I were gullible enough to believe we were exclusive when he didnt want me to ask you about yall or come out on forums w our relationship then I guess it would be one less friend and one less Playa in my life but take it all as a lesson and try to do things differently next time around:)

@Sammy2: Do things differently?? What coulda been done different, other then not trusting friends? I haven't said anything about what he said or done or if the relationship was acknowledged on forums....didn't even say it was a forum relationship....I'm asking about the friend?

Not an honest friend so not worth making the same mistake of trusting her again and Guy was obviously dishonest-so before fallin so hard next time be a lil more cautious-I know I am:)