I dont know i think guys get mad sometimes when you dont wanna talk to them in my experience. And howww rudeee to send a message like that?? Im a big girl . And no one has sent me that. So i wonder Andres? If guys got mad....cus i "turn down" or am not interested. Couldnt they vote against me and say i was mean?

If you didn't reply to them, then that means you've never contacted them, so they would not be able to vote on your profile since they would have nothing to base that vote on. You, on the other hand, would be able to vote on theirs based on the message they sent you.

So, in that case, they would not be able to downvote you in retaliation.

Still an awesome idea and thank you again.

Being a big girl myself i havent came across any msgs like that yet .....but it does remind me of sumthin that happened at work .i wrk overnights at walmart .i was out of the sellsfloor stockin my isle when this guy customer comes up to me n says wow dont u know how fat u r dang girl u huge was sayin all this rude stuff to my face .wit him being a customer i cudnt cuss him out or be rude to him ..i tell u ppl can be so rude/mean sometimes

Im think these disrespectful people would be contacting people just to give them a negative vote.. Just saying

Yeh, all my shirts have armholes:)

@andres:Mate, thats a top idea

Oh look! I found the birth of the Karma system thread!

My self, I would rather try to have someone smile, than hurt their feelings. Smiles are fun!

I like the way u think!

@JLaDawn:
"Think"? Haha, now that's a concept that I will have to laugh about! Haha, thanks for the smile! C, easy to smile, and makes the day a lot better!