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Topic: Abusers (by MysticJade)
I want opinions on abusers like mental, emotion, and physically abusers
What about them?? Ive been a victim of all of them.....they r low life cowards that have no respect for anybody
What do you want an opinion about? I went through a year of counselling for physical&mental abuse not too many decades ago...lol;)
I divorced my ex husband for mental and emotional abuse.....my ex of 11 yrs i left because he became verbally abusive and my last ex is in prison for beating the sh*t out of me.......
I have played a victim to all as well.... They're all low life scum that make people feel like crap to get their way. That's why you have to learn to turn your back and tell them to kick rocks, a lot easier said then done though.
Opinion in what context? I despise most abusers for not having the fortitude to break what was probably a victim/ abuser cycle and instead perpetuating it forward....
I can speak for mental and emotional abuse put up with it my whole life.
Last edited by mrb89; 23-Jan-13 9:42 pm.
@MysticJade: depends on whether they are emotionally disturbed or just plain mean...
hmm. physical abusers? most defiantly.
Mental and emotional abusers? I think there is a chance they could learn, with treatment like therapy, to not do those things anymore.
-personal story-
my father was emotionally abusive (and mentally) my whole life... he's big thing was stress would set him off and he'd yell over stupid little things. He'd always come to us after all the horrid things he'd yell (one time he went so far as to tell me I was the reason his life was miserable) and apologize saying he was sorry and that he loved us. Now he admits he handled it badly, but I think if at the time, he'd had help to channel his frustration and stress appropriately, he never would have belittled us all and yelled and been the way he was. Horrid as the things he did were, he wouldn't have deserved jail or being put away in a mental institution.
Mental and emotional abusers? I think there is a chance they could learn, with treatment like therapy, to not do those things anymore.
-personal story-
my father was emotionally abusive (and mentally) my whole life... he's big thing was stress would set him off and he'd yell over stupid little things. He'd always come to us after all the horrid things he'd yell (one time he went so far as to tell me I was the reason his life was miserable) and apologize saying he was sorry and that he loved us. Now he admits he handled it badly, but I think if at the time, he'd had help to channel his frustration and stress appropriately, he never would have belittled us all and yelled and been the way he was. Horrid as the things he did were, he wouldn't have deserved jail or being put away in a mental institution.
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