a serious question: why does love require so much sacrifice? dont get me wrong i love Shaz a lot and want to be with her so much, but in order to do that i have leave behind my friends, my family and my independance, and if it goes wrong... Im so confused at what to do, i need a friend to physically talk to :(

I went hrough that with one of my exes.....as far as the not working out part unfortunately in life thats the risk we take when we make that commit...there r never any guarantees.......i moved to massachusettes for mine i lived there for 3 yrs made awsome money brand new car handin the kids money all the time had a condo......all together we were a couple for 11 years...it ended when he changed (for the worst)...i didnt have any friends or fam there...had to suck it up and move home......a relationship should be about compromise not always sacrifice...things like big huge moves should be mutully agreed upon to the best interest of BOTH involved

You can always move back, that's the great thing about friends, you can not see em for years and when you do its like you never left!

@james85: hey buddy... if I had international calling I would talk to you, but as I don't, I am here virtually when you need me. I know it's tough, but that's life, things are hard to figure out and not always easy to deal with.

james u can message me anytime to talk. even on fb.

@mrb89: lol if we spoke on the phone i'd die of embarrasment! anyways thanks you're right :)
@irishangel82: thank you so much :)