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Learning as I go:) (by Sammy2)

 Sammy2 
18-Jan-13 3:36 am
Well, I've learned a few valuable lessons from being on this site:) The first one was not to give out my number to every guy that asks-chat w them in forums or inbox before deciding whether you trust them enough to do that:) Today I learned another lesson. I am scared. Lol not scared like spooky :) but scared to fully trust and believe that the guy I been texting for a week is really being honest about how he says he feels about me:) Yeah I know I have trust issues lol (Takes deep breath) so I need to take a step back and really make sure this one is for real before moving forward w him-because I have let men in too soon before & they were lessons too:)

 

 

 
 
 coffeeman 
18-Jan-13 3:38 am
:-)

 

 

 
 
 JLaDawn 
18-Jan-13 3:41 am
Gl and I hope it works for you....Just be safe girl!

 

 

 
 
 Aldo420 
18-Jan-13 3:42 am
As long as you learn from your expierences

 

 

 
 
 Giggles 
18-Jan-13 3:44 am
Yay Woohoo Aunt Sammy :) Please be safe Aunt Sammy :) seriously :) Dont wont him upsetting you okay :) ..

 

 

 
 
 Sammy2 
18-Jan-13 3:47 am
@JLaDawn: I am:) he seems more real than anyone Ive texted yet-but yes Aldo-slowing down cuz I learned from the past:) @ giggles-Bein cautious sweety:)thanks guys:)

 

 



Last edited by Sammy2; 18-Jan-13 3:50 am.
 
 
 endlesssorrow (Banned)
18-Jan-13 4:11 am
i hv lived by one great motto. TRUST NOONE. dat way u cant get hurt when u find out ur lover doesnt deserve trust :@

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
18-Jan-13 4:17 am
it is hard to trust once u been deceived.so many times, I know the feeling well. Just go day by day, don't expect to much and u won't get as disappointed in the long run. I hevent learned to do that yet lol but it sounds good :)

 

 

 
 
 Sammy2 
18-Jan-13 4:19 am
@endlesssorrow: but what if they do deserve your trust? How will you ever know if you dont give them a chance? I say that ya know, but I am still leary of this guy only because I dont believe Im the only one he wants lol guys are usually all about the sex-Ugh-not sure what to believe w this one but gonna slow down cuz I am overwhelmed at how good he makes me feel just texting each other-its crazy to think how we would feel if we ever actually met lol-just dont think its real yet-not gettin in too deep till Im sure:)

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
18-Jan-13 4:22 am
u gotta go with ur gut. do u think he's texting others? stop and think about it!! now SERIOUSLY as much as u guys talk, do u HONESTLY think he's talking to someone else? Or are u just being paranoid?

 

 

 
 
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