@JustMeAndYou77: hey! *hugs* I've missed you too! I have kind of fallen out of the loop for a while between work, the flu, and moving haha but I'm back :-) I've come to realize that I am just keeping my distance because I'm nervous of falling for the wrong guy again and getting hurt. After 6 years of being married to an abusive a** its hard to let a guy get close. I am finding that becoming friends with them and not worrying about an attraction or connection allows me to see them differently and eventually retract my defensive walls. There's a light at the end of this tunnel, girl, and I'm sprinting for it :-D

loool I got you girl and it's great to see you. Thanks so much for the hug :) I've just been talking about the flu. ug. I'm glad you're feeling better now though. It's been taking quite a toll on a lot of people this season.