I ain't offended or mad. You mistook that :P

Take each out and decide which I like better. The other could always still be a friend.

Naw, old fashion. I only have one to stay with me, and I would stay with one. The other may be hurt, or dissapointed, but it's better than cheating on the one that I'm with, or myself. I have to look in the mirror to shave, and could not face myself. just my opion.

ok, I rather misunderstand than for it to be true lol Anyhow, how would you deal with one of the ladies who objects? Remember, both of these ladies are really into you and want the relationship with you. If you choose one, you would have to be in a fully committed relationship with her, so the other will not like it.

hmmm.... I can see this, yes. But still...what about the result of the other person knowing where they stand with you? Just as a friend and nothing more is possible....

I am sleepy and sleep deprieved so maybe my tone which it comes off is a bit more blunt then usual but either way. Yeah wasn't offended, mad, or anything negative. Lol

Well like said if it took that much to decide, something is keeping me from both so I probably take neither. I don't wanna just settle and my personality I am a one woman kinda guy. To get to a fully committed rrelationship level. Id not have another girl on my mind.

But, if by chance that situation came up. 1, we wouldn't have been exclusive. I was being exclusive once to a girl who we dated/flirted. Found out she was with another guy too, it may stung but honestly unless you are bf/gf. You can't expect both parties to not. I do, however, until I know one way or another but that's just me. 2, if she's a good friend. Or wants me to be happy she'll understand. I ain't one to hide it. I'd tell her what's going on. That whatever reason I just think we should be friends. )there would be a reason I chose one over another)

You know.... As hard of a decision this may be, if a choice is going to be made between the two, I agree that it should be a full decision. The person will be hurt but will be able to do what's in her best interest also.

You're alright with me anonymous.... :)) There's one thing you've mentioned here that I appreciated. Honesty! It doesn't make things easier on the other person but it definitely is a plus. I think it tells the person that you are sincerely a friend despite your decision.

I believe in honesty for sure. I have had girls just up ignore me outta blue, lie to me/cheat to "spare my feelings", etc.. i'd rather a girl tell me she has no interest in me, and want me to leave her alone. Then to just avoid me. So on. Hurts but more respectful.