A red flag for me has always been a guy who wants to discuss things that don't pertain to your requirements. They try to get you to discuss or be interested in things that you're not. Not only will that not work but it's lame lol

red flags-
I say 'just friends' and they say: DATE ME. (just screams desperate to me tbh)
I get called a pet name or told they want me in their life, without so much as a hello
If a guy talks about his ex like they are still together, that to me causes alarm bells to start ringing.
Sext/nude pics messages make me cringe and make me think the guy/girl is just looking for a hook-up (which is fine if your profile states that but 9 outta 10's profiles say long-term or what not, so yeah)

The whole text/call thing for me is no big deal. I mean, if they work and all I don't expect to get texts while they are working. Also some people live places where cell service is crappy, so it may take a while to reply. So for me that's not so bad. I might be p-i-s-s-e-d if they said: I am gonna call/text at so-an-so time and an hour passes and nadda but I give them the benefit of doubt the first time it happens cause things pop up and I acknowledge that. But if it becomes a pattern, than I see red flags. I guess it truly depends on the situation surrounding it like I see the point about the can't text but seeing them on here, that would make me go 'WHOOO WAIT A MINUTE THERE'. And I don't blame you for dumping that person.

@everyposter: shut up yall know ya want suma dis!

Perfect red flag right here...lmao

no this is a red flag... |>.... so there...

More like, red rum (the shining).... lol

lol one of jacks finest performances! i watched a ghost hunters where they investigated that same hotel!!

REDRUM!!

Really...? What did they find? I guess we're still on topic lol

Biggest thing bugs me is when ya get a message and its like an appilication. Not personal just my name is, age, location, I like you, I do this, this, this, etc.. since a profile states most of it. I think its more simple to just start talking. Feels like they are looking for a green card, or searching potentional husbands looking for apps or something.

Also if a girl is pretty much spread eagle, etc.. on a profile picture. Also not verified. To me screams non legit. I don't care about verified picture unless seems like its a fake picture or a prono picture. Lol had gotten a msg from someone that swear the picture could've been a dressed pornstar. Lol

@JustMeAndYou77: they did find that it is indeed haunted severely and stephen king experienced this.... thats how the book was born..... no red flags though.....