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Red Flags........ (by JstBeinMe)
Idk if there is already a thread on this or not but decided to create one anyhow......im curious to know.....as a guy or a gal....what is it that your potentials say or do that raises red flags for you??
I have several but will mention only a couple as id like to get yer feedback....one is if they make excuses of times they can call or text...calling and texting only in certain places or areas......making excuses or refusing to come to you to meet for the first time.....
Oh well give me a minute to verify mine.....i figured since most everyone knows me i wasnt going to be in any real big hurry.....lol
If a woman is taller than me I won't date her, no exceptions. Other than that not much.
my biggest thing is not texting while others are around....his friends etc. Like he don't want them to know about u
someone who is pushy.... for example; i was messaged and she wanted my number. i told her i dont give my number to anyone unless we've known eachother for a bit, come hang out on the forums and you can get to know me there. well she stated that shed prefer i give her my number and we can get to know eachother that way.
now didnt i JUST say no? do ya think cause im a guy that im hard up for a gf? so i dumped her after only having read 2 messages. pushy is a huge turn off cause its a sign of a controlling person. if you cant respect me enough to accept my decision.... then you arent worth my time. i mean, if a woman said what i had said and the guy pushed for her number then shed do exactly as i did. i expect that same courtesy. just cause im a guy doesnt mean its ok for a woman to push me.
now didnt i JUST say no? do ya think cause im a guy that im hard up for a gf? so i dumped her after only having read 2 messages. pushy is a huge turn off cause its a sign of a controlling person. if you cant respect me enough to accept my decision.... then you arent worth my time. i mean, if a woman said what i had said and the guy pushed for her number then shed do exactly as i did. i expect that same courtesy. just cause im a guy doesnt mean its ok for a woman to push me.
Its a gamble really, no pic at all is unacceptible, not verified could mean they change their pic often I do. Had a girl tell me she needs a husband to collect an inheritance "dumped" lolz, its not hard to screen out the scammers! @paul I don't like pushy people either, @razor taller isn't always bad, I just don't wanna be shorter and smaller. For the most part everyone I talk to is pretty legit.
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