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How can you diagnose if its love and not lust? (by PureGold)
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I am totally confused in your thread :/.
You said love can't be diagnosed by action ( buying gifts , outing and saying iloveyou) but can be diagnosed by distance and life challenges yet you are questioning how can anyone feel inlove without physical meeting .
Aren't living from the opposite side of the world and being in a challenge of being away yet remain faithful , loyal and honest and not to mention the cost of long distance calls and hours spent in online communication and adjustment of time difference are challenges that are not easy to surpass in having an online relationship ? And only those who are serious in a relationship are able to have the courage to take the risk .
Love whether in virtual or in real is not easy to " diagnose " if genuine and not only lust . Only time can tell ..
You said love can't be diagnosed by action ( buying gifts , outing and saying iloveyou) but can be diagnosed by distance and life challenges yet you are questioning how can anyone feel inlove without physical meeting .
Aren't living from the opposite side of the world and being in a challenge of being away yet remain faithful , loyal and honest and not to mention the cost of long distance calls and hours spent in online communication and adjustment of time difference are challenges that are not easy to surpass in having an online relationship ? And only those who are serious in a relationship are able to have the courage to take the risk .
Love whether in virtual or in real is not easy to " diagnose " if genuine and not only lust . Only time can tell ..
Very good point PureGold. I agree with you. Love grows and Lust happens.
I have truelly learnt a lot from all of you. I have come to see that this site is not only for meeting new people only but also to learn new things. I appreciate you guys...I wish I could send each of you chocolate and pizza. Thank u all
@JustMeAndYou77: How are u? I tried 2 send u a wink but u have restrictions.I noticed u read my profile. I read urs too n its nice. Let's be friends perhaps we can write a book on love together or produce a movie. Break d ice by uplifting ur restrictions that hindered my wink/message.
@DRainbowbutterfly: I didn't say it can be diagnosed by distance. Rather I said there must first be a contact and then it grows with time and made strong by life's challenges
lol, yes :) I check profiles as I am posting in conversation to a thread. I like to know who I am chatting with. Anyway, there are no restrictions set on my profile. I removed them a little while ago now.
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