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How can you diagnose if its love and not lust? (by PureGold)

 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
5-Jan-13 11:15 pm
Hmm idk bout that.... Lol i think you can be in love and lust for that person at the same time also.....but i know what you're trying to say, if its just lust you probably do what you need to do and be done with it! I think most women will feel different about it then men.....

 

 

 
 
 VELVETVEGA 
6-Jan-13 12:03 am
To me love is just one big mystery to awe and wonder. :)

 

 

 
 
 VELVETVEGA 
6-Jan-13 12:17 am
When I was young I was very insecure and had been hurt and rejected by the father of my oldest son. Then I met someone and it was a deeply physical and very lustful relationship. It helped me to blossom and become the secure confident sexy woman I became :)

 

 

 
 
 bigred1219 
6-Jan-13 12:32 am
I got a quick question that maybe you can answer for me. Can love turn into lust?

 

 

 
 
 VELVETVEGA 
6-Jan-13 12:43 am
Hmm I think lust can turn to love because it did for me

 

 

 
 
 bigred1219 
6-Jan-13 12:47 am
Hmm I think lust can turn to love because it did for me
Well that was my case too. But can you fall out of love and make it lust? That is what I'm asking.

 

 

 
 
 VELVETVEGA 
6-Jan-13 12:49 am
Yes, thats when you break up with an ex and just look to each other for sex only

 

 

 
 
 VELVETVEGA 
6-Jan-13 12:50 am
And I know theres alot of couples that will do that. I know I have.

 

 

 
 
 bigred1219 
6-Jan-13 12:56 am
I would not touch my ex with a 20 ft pole

 

 

 
 
 VELVETVEGA 
6-Jan-13 1:03 am
Hmm yea that would depend on the couple.

 

 

 
 
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