Thread: The first step is admitting it... :(

The first step is admitting it... :( (by james85)

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heikeva (69)

(60 / F-M / Bayern)
4-Jan-13 8:46 am

@james85: You better get on that plane James......iam sure it must be nerve recking, try not to think and worry so much! Its easy for us to say we probably all be nerves 2 but i would tell myself what do i have 2 loose either you 2 gonna hit it off or you wont! 2 choices, and you been talking 2 each other for a while now and know what you both want! So please give it a chance and go for it! You can do it, i know you can! :)

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JustMeAndYou77 (17)

(47 / F-M / Florida)
4-Jan-13 10:28 am

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good morning everyone, its time to finally admit this, well i dont even know whats wrong but i've been waking up and having some horrible thoughts for the past 4/5 days, putting myself down before i meet Shaz, silly little things like "she wont like me" even "if it does work out whats the next step?" and thats the tip of the iceberg of the horrible thoughts ive been having. I live alone so ive no one person to person to talk to and ive been

james, hi you! :) Yes, I do think it's cold feet. But, I also think the reason you are having hypothermal peditis lol (hey, Im no doctor or scientist but it's funny anyways lmao) is because you want to be in control of yourself, your emotions, and the situation to ensure that everything goes great but it is impossible. I mean you can prepare yourself to make a nice impression and things like that but be in the moment with her and not swallowed by anticipation. It wont allow you two a genuine meeting

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james85
4-Jan-13 12:15 pm

thanks you two, dont worry heike i want to go its just i am scared, petrified in fact, i would love someone to talk to face to face about it but thats impossible :(

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anncleofaye
4-Jan-13 12:30 pm

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aww am havin the same thing james. too much worrying bout such stuffs.

You both will be fine and its natural to feel this way. Good luck to you both james and my daughter anne. Love you both dearly you both are so sweet.

gosh! mom ure so sweet! i really really love u too!

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Briteeyes
4-Jan-13 1:05 pm

Hiya James. I agree with everyone, its normal to nervous. but just be urself that's who she feel for. Leave all negative thoughts locked inane closet it will drive u crazy during ur visit. Take this time to enjoy Shaz don't worry about the what if's or what does this mean for the future. Enjoy her, hold her hand, laugh with her, and everything else will fall into place.

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james85
4-Jan-13 4:02 pm

@Briteeyes: thanks brite, that means a lot to me

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ReVampyDoll
4-Jan-13 4:15 pm

Hey mucka roo. Its only natural to feel nervous. But its good nerves. How fast has it come around. Seems like only yesterday we were discussing double dates and visits to my part of the UK. Well im single now so no double dating but you're still welcome to come down if you get the chance. You are both sweet people and im sure you'll both be fine. Its exciting though. Im made up for you both :-)

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james85
4-Jan-13 5:31 pm

@ReVampyDoll: thanks kim, we still are gonna dress up in onesies when we come to visit lol. we will visit you someday i promise. :)

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