That is a tough one, every relationship needs work, but this will probably need alot more patience and understanding....and sometimes we shouldnt just listen to our heart but use our head and think about what we getting ourselfs into! Good luck..... :)

well hun id say ur decision is: will u be able to handle those unwarrented attacks? if it hurts u when she does it, all excuses aside, id say u need to let go. u may always love her but an unhealthy relationship will destroy u. just be careful at how much of ur heart u give to her.