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What Do You Consider Ok To Keep Your Loved One In The Dark About? (by JustMeAndYou77)
@72Montegoman: Exs,yea good point.reminds me of dantes reaction when his gf tells him how many guys shes been with in the movie clerks.
well they would probably figure it out anyway once you snap on em, then hug and make up, then snap again... Lol crackin on ya but in a friendly way. Mine would be the fact that im the High Priestess of a coven. Just..seems to be a turn off for most ppl in general really lol. Wouldn hide it, would lie if she asked. But mebe wouldn go out of my way to tell until i knew how she would react yknow?
@LovelySummeRayne: Yea i understand,because religion and politics are sometimes best discussed between people who just plainly accept you for who you are.
Hmm,im not female but im sure a lot of the ladys wouldnt openly discuss if theyve had an abortion.Just something that popped inTo my head.
@LovelySummeRayne: I agree, Religion and politics generally aren't something to talk about. Though I actually DO if we get serious and I know the girl is christian or such. I will relay the fact I'm more or less Athiest, as I know that's a deal breaker for a lot of girls.
Also, HOW DARE YOU SAY I SNAP! wait...sorry...hug? DON'T TOUCH ME! o-o lmao I didn't take offense to it. Also if I'm really happy -usually am with a significant other-, I generally don't go off much. Though I do at times.
Also, HOW DARE YOU SAY I SNAP! wait...sorry...hug? DON'T TOUCH ME! o-o lmao I didn't take offense to it. Also if I'm really happy -usually am with a significant other-, I generally don't go off much. Though I do at times.
I dont hide anything im a open book. This is why my friends get a kick out of me. The only think i wouldnt tell is special surprises for them and still find out.
Ahh, yes, very good one Montegoman, thanks. This is definitely one of those things the bf/gf could care less about. It wouldn't violate any trust issues not knowing unless the ex is still very much apart of that person's life.
I see.... Well, until you know for sure, I don't think disclosing or not would be a dishonest approach.
hmmm.... I dunno about past marriages. Don't know how it would be viewed by the bf/new husband since you were in a deeper level of commitment with them and children are extra attachments. Do you think divorcing qualifies your ex husband to be treated just as any ex? What if you now have children from both and the fathers will be involved heavily in the children's lives? Do you think it's something that should be shared with the new bf/husband right away or would it have the same impact on the new one as any past relationship?
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