Ok, so a girl I am talking to is pressuring me in to talking on the phone (which we've talked a few times). I have told her before I really don't like talking on the phone in general and explained I don't get good signal here but she keeps pushing the issue. I prefer to mainly txt. Well I felt she was disrespecting my preferences so I said we should just be friends and since she has been begginng me to take her back and claiming she doesn't feel good and other things. Thoughts and suggestions?

So far I just feel like she has a few issues, but that's just me. I just want other opinions.

wow um she sounds crazier than me its not hard to respect somene if u like them

Idk all i can say is just always go with your gut and first instincts.......she should respect the fact u dont always want to talk on the phone and playin the im not feelin good card to try and get u on the phone not only isnt right its selfish and childish

She has also flat out txted, "Pls give me another chance. I care about you and the kids. I just want to talk to my man sometimes is all." I call her atleast once a week when I can because I have to stand at the window in a certain spot or go outside just to get a calling signal. Nd it"s too cold to go outside and I have a 2 and 4yo to take care of so can't just stand in one spot.

And it seems like if I don't txt her back immediately I am ignoring her, when really I am just dealing with my kids, doing housework, laundry, cooking breakfast, lunch or supper, putting kids to bed or soaking in the tub or just fell asleep myself. When you're a single parent you don't have time to txt every second, and I txt every chance I get.

she is very needy hun if u really want advice leave it alone now the longer u put it off the harder it will be thats just her being crazy

Right now trying to get the concept through to her it's better to be just friends than nothing at all.

if she dont show signs of acceptance real soon like now let her go completely. You have ur children u dont a needy woman to put up with, trust me. Your babies going to come way before her.

i have a friend from here that texts me only once or twice every 2 or 3 weeks and im fine with that and he does not have children.