Why do women have to be so hateful towards each other? I consider myself a pretty humble christian girl and i try to treat everyone with kindness but a lot of the time with women i'm met with just plain rudeness and a haughty attitude. Making it difficult for me to even have girl friends. What gives?

@sillygirl: i beg to differ, not every woman is like that!!!! I can get along with anyone! so dont put all women in the same boat!

@SassyOak23: i didnt say all women. It would be ignorant of me to lump everyone in one category. I'm just saying a lot of women are like that. And its just depressing.

@sillygirl: yes alot of them are like that, but still there is some good ones out there that aint such total bit*hes

I think even the sweetest of women are capable of being b***hes, its jus part of it. I for one am a very happy kind hearted generous person until u give me a reason not to be, then it dont matter if ur male or female, the b***h comes out.

@sillygirl: I am with you on that. I've been having the same problem for a looong time. I've always been very nice, humble, fun, honest and a good listener, but female friendships never last. Something catty or stupid always comes up and we end up not talking anymore. I try to retrace my steps and see if it was anything I did and honestly, I can't find anything on me. For a while I thought guys were great friends, but romantic feelings always develop on the guy's end - then everything goes downhill from there when I tell them I'm not interested in them in that way. *sigh* -_-

I have great girl friends for decades of different age bracket and I love them all. I think OP, you're just unlucky to stumbled on the wrong one, just keep on your positive attitudes and God will reward you of your goodness :)