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Lust at first sight (by lovablesweetyy)
(37 / M-F / Nigeria)There are times when men or women miss what there Creator has for them because their expectations are too high or because they do not feel worthy for some reason. Just because someone does not appear to line up to be your perfect woman or make your perfect man list, does not mean that they are not perfect for you. your creator knows you better than you know yourself and he knows who would be the best match for you. Have you ever had someone tell you what their soul mate should be like? They were so finicky, so picky, that they would miss their best love at first sight opportunity because a guy was only 1 inch taller than them or the guy might be ugly or too old, or because a woman wore her hair up. Have you ever heard a woman say, he has to be like this, he must be like that, he must like to do this, he must like to do that? I do not think they have a drive through where Barbie can make such a detailed creation of Ken, maybe they could do it with play doh though. Finding the right person for you, begins with you being the right person. Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain.
Sometimes people block out their best soul mate opportunities because of previous experiences. There is story about African American woman who had totally blocked out all African American men due to her past relationships, she had labeled them all unworthy because of her own pain. Too often people label others by race or culture and do not realize that the issue is within them. At first sight, they walk away from the person who may have been their intended soul mate without even getting to know them. How many times have you heard the slogan; you can’t read a book by its cover?
Our cultures and the societies we live in know far more about sex, than about love. Many people who say it was love at first sight, had sex that first night. It was sexual attraction at first sight, they let there hormones control them at first sight, they let their emotions think for them at first sight, and too many women give themselves away at first sight. A month later they are saying that it was love at first sight, when in reality it was lust at first sight. Too many people refer to sex as making love, when the sex is purely lust driven. After making the claim that it was love at first sight, months or years later, they have separated or divorced because it was never love to begin with.
What your corrupt nature wants is contrary to what your spiritual nature wants, and what your spiritual nature wants is contrary to what your corrupt nature wants. They are opposed to each other. As a result, you don’t always do what you intend to do.
Sometimes people block out their best soul mate opportunities because of previous experiences. There is story about African American woman who had totally blocked out all African American men due to her past relationships, she had labeled them all unworthy because of her own pain. Too often people label others by race or culture and do not realize that the issue is within them. At first sight, they walk away from the person who may have been their intended soul mate without even getting to know them. How many times have you heard the slogan; you can’t read a book by its cover?
Our cultures and the societies we live in know far more about sex, than about love. Many people who say it was love at first sight, had sex that first night. It was sexual attraction at first sight, they let there hormones control them at first sight, they let their emotions think for them at first sight, and too many women give themselves away at first sight. A month later they are saying that it was love at first sight, when in reality it was lust at first sight. Too many people refer to sex as making love, when the sex is purely lust driven. After making the claim that it was love at first sight, months or years later, they have separated or divorced because it was never love to begin with.
What your corrupt nature wants is contrary to what your spiritual nature wants, and what your spiritual nature wants is contrary to what your corrupt nature wants. They are opposed to each other. As a result, you don’t always do what you intend to do.
My African-American bf would love your post! lol
lol sure, some men and women will hate this post because it lives in them.
lmao, well.... I don't see why they would lovable. I wouldn't and don't hate it at all 
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