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 ledgend1278 (0)   (43 / M-F / Kentucky)
6-Dec-12 10:27 pm
People on here are a joke don't ever want to talk just cause you don't have a pic some people just can't or not that fortunate but they could be passing up the best thing to ever happen to them people need to stop judging over pics

 

 

 
 
 missCHIE (27)    (30 / F-MF / Philippines)
6-Dec-12 10:30 pm
shall i laugh?

 

 

 
 
 LovelySummeRayne (7)   (31 / F-F / Louisiana)
6-Dec-12 10:34 pm
most ppl think that ppl without pics are either unattractive/have low self confidence (i dont think that. Just other ppl. Ive been in ur situation and...yea its annoyin. However, on the semi-optimistic side if they judge u without even seeing u, ya Probably wouldn get along with em too well yes? Just think of it as free contact screening ;)

 

 

 
 
 ledgend1278 (0)   (43 / M-F / Kentucky)
6-Dec-12 10:36 pm
@LovelySummeRayne: Well Ty

 

 

 
 
 ledgend1278 (0)   (43 / M-F / Kentucky)
6-Dec-12 10:38 pm
@missCHIE: What's there to laugh about its the truth

 

 

 
 
 mrb89 
6-Dec-12 10:46 pm
I think the reason a lot of people don't talk with someone with no pic, is because they could actually be anyone... not because they are judging the person. It has to do more with online safety. If you meet someone and they said their names was Amy, sent you some pics of a pretty blonde and three months into a relationship, you find out their name is actually Sarah and they're actually a redhead and look nothing like the pics you'd been receiving, wouldn't it suck to have put your heart into something only to find out the person was not real? it's not that people will think you a bad person, it's just: why get involved with someone who may not be who they claim to be?

 

 

 
 
 ledgend1278 (0)   (43 / M-F / Kentucky)
6-Dec-12 10:49 pm
@mrb89: I understand what you mean but you really looking for someone you should be honest and love the person not all about looks i know i am good looking but don't want someone that wants me just based on that want them to love me

 

 

 
 
 mrb89 
6-Dec-12 11:14 pm
@ledgend1278: well, I get that. But my statement wasn't just about looks. I mean someone could claim to be just about anyone on the internet. You could really think you know someone, and they could turn out to be someone totally different, that and I hate to say it, but looks do play into things, if there is no physical connection, than a lot of times, conversations will not start. I know when someone with no photo sends me a message with a compliment, I am less likely to reply, because there is nothing to reply to. I can not say, 'you have a nice smile' or the picture of you looks nice'. Looks aren't everything, for sure, but you won't talk to someone, if you aren't attracted to them (unless it's a friendly conversation). if you were at a bar, and you had a choice between a girl whose face you can clearly see, and one who say, has a bag over her head, wouldn't you be suspicious of the one and go for the other? it's the same online... if a girl receives a message from say, 10 guys in one day. She is least likely to reply to the photo-less one, not because they weren't nice or whatnot, but because she can't see who they are

 

 

 
 
 missCHIE (27)    (30 / F-MF / Philippines)
6-Dec-12 11:22 pm
@missCHIE: What's there to laugh about its the truth
because you said its a joke.. Soo expected to be funny ,

 

 

 
 
 ledgend1278 (0)   (43 / M-F / Kentucky)
7-Dec-12 2:29 am
@mrb89: I know what you mean but do you get what i mean

 

 

 
 
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