I feel like **** right now my bf is in the hospital and I have no way to be by his side because he's in TN and I'm in MO he says its okay at least we get to talk on the phone but I'm his gf I should be by his side :'( sorry everyone just had to get this out :/

hugs u ll b with him in spirit

That's not good enough :( I mean he's so good to me I've never had anyone so sweet and caring. He treats my daughter as his own. Even right now while he's in the hospital he went an wrote a beautiful poem for me. And all I can do is just talk to him on the phone he deserves so much more :(

well if hes writin poems and talkin to ya on the phone seems to be doin ok, and im sure he doesnt want ya sittin around frettin about him, at least hes ok, thats the important thing

What else have you got in mind to cheer him up OP?

I understand what you feel , that's one of the down side of LTR but also, it will make the relationship stronger ..

Talking to him and knowing that you are there for him ( although from a distance ) is already a big help for him & surely , he doesn't want you feeling down because of the thought that you can't be physically with him at this very moment ..

@RockHeart I hope he is he's been in there for 3 days now so I don't know if he is or not :/

@DRain thanks and I know he doesn't but if it was the other way around he'd be feeling the same way I'm feeling. Its just so hard not being with him I feel like I'm letting him down :/

sorry if i said something was trying to b supportive

@Greeneyed you didn't say anything wrong at all I promise and thank you I'm just not myself right now sorry if I made you feel bad when you were only helping.