what ever happen to getting to know someone before you date them? I inboxed a guy (totally hot btw) and gave them a complememnt on there pro pic.. And they asked if i wanted to be there girlfriend..... Not complaining... Just the perfect example for this thread.... Then my roomate (age 34) said thats how it is people no longer get to know one another they just "hey your cute" "he you to " "wanna date?" "sure".... Im 19! And im called old fashion...! Please enlighten me on your individual opinion.

I think you're right and I agree. Kinda explains the fast hookups and breakups too.

Guy probably looking for sex just be careful

i know how you feel i got same veiws must get to know a person before ill date them i wont date someone i dont like fully with physical and mental attraction some cuties dont have the right mind i like actually most cuties dont have the mindset that im attracted to anyway stick to your views dont change yourself to go with the flow that individualism is yours use it and get the respect you deserve girl

Thats someone that jus wants the title of having a gf....dont matter WHO it is....its usually the young boys that jus need to brag about they got someone but fact is ur only a title, theres no love there

I agree with the women that posted before me! It's better to really get to know someone before you date so that you know whether or not you're wasting your time with them.

I agree w all previous posters. id never date anyone i didnt know well enough, i think id actually be ****** if someone id just met asked me to be their gf

Good job ladies! You are all making good points. Now, i am not that guy, although let's face it i'm a cutie lol, but maybe this fella we are talking about just wants to feel like someone loves him because the reality of the matter, no one does, and now he is just really desperate for a relatonship, any relationship. I know that might be hard to understand from a woman's point of view, because women are mean and do the things you are all saying, men normally don't act like that. Women tend to be vile people always caniving against someone, trying to one up everyone, trying to break others down to make themselves feel better and try to come out on top. Women are also more likely to want a nsa relationship before men. You know stay away, come over when you need them, then back off again giving you your space letting you do whatever you want without any repercussions. That is just my take on the matter.

Ohh another thing, why is it women always assme tye absolute worst in situations? That is uow drama and rumors start you know. Neither of which is good or fun for the people involved only the spectators. Just be careful what you say and assume about people because it may have a major negative impact on their life.

@gooddude88: i cant say much to your first post but i think i might shed light on the second my favorite philosophy is always expect the worst and hope for the best some women might not be able to control that feeling of the worst possible outcome because they expect it and instead of shutting up about it they feel the need to get to the bottom of it however its the wrong way to go and that is to all the women reading this as well the point is women feel guys cannot be trusted in alot of cases or its just the fact that they just might love to start a argument for something and its a craving that needs to be fed i hope this helps