My so called bf and I are having some trouble. Everytime we talk hes always wanting sex. okay, i can somewhat deal with that. Is there something else I can do with him besides have sex because im getting tired of it. I feel like he's using me

he is using u

@butterfly6577: Okay, that what the heck is he telling me he loves me and says that we should be together, have a family and be happy together, I dont understand

@Jakie20126: if he doesnt respect your feelings I dont think he loves you jmo

i was talking to a guy that the only time he called me was for phone sex and he told me he loved me!! and he was full of ****..... Just tell him no and if he gets mad then he is probably useing u! if he really loves u and wants to b with u he will understand!

It must be frustrating 4u wit ur bf, bt listen 2 wat da others r sayin, cos its nt rite, he takin advantage of u...if he respects u dat much he wudnt want sex all da time, bt dats my opinion

@Sweets73: You have a good point

How old is he?He might be using you.But it might be a few other factors.Like it might be hormones cause well your 18 and i figure hes around that age and well hormones can come into play if hes around your age.Also talk to him and tell him he needs to rub one out cause it sounds like he might be thinking with the wrong head,and well if a guy can rub one out then well it might help.Of course before y'all talk.Cause once a man starts thinkin with that head well theres only one thing on a dcks mind.If it aint hormones,and if he rubs one out and it doesnt work or refuses to,then hes definetly using you.

Sounds like he may not understand what love is.

@Dslaney92: Good point,yea maybe his mom and dad forgot to tell him theres more to it than just the birds and the bees.